1. See every Law and Order: SVU episode.

2. Eat healthier.

3. Keep my car clean.

4. Meet the BDS guys at least three times.

5. Tell my husband I love him everyday.

What? Isn’t this how you celebrate Christmas?…No….Well that’s why you hate the holidays!

How cute

This happy dance was inspired by @wwwbigbaldhead…and some alcohol LOL.

Dysfunction is defined as “not operating normally or properly” and/or “deviating from the norms of social behavior in a way regarded as bad.” A person cannot be described dysfunctional by using these definitions because it is impossible to determine what is normal. A man who stops his work every day at certain times to pray to the East (Or West depending on where you are) would not be described as dysfuntional because he is deviating from the norm or not completing his work, he is simply a Muslim practicing his faith. So why do we still use this to describe people that have mental disabilities or illnesses, in some cultures they would be considered powerful or wise. Some people may see them as a person who is in touch with a whole different element that we are incapable of. A person is never dyfunctional, especially because of some aspects that they cannot control, they are special and unique. Society has once become scared of them and locked them away because of ignorance and fear. We still fear them today without actually getting to know them. Even if a person cannot talk, or walk does not mean they are dysfuntional, they have feelings, thoughts and certain actions that allow others to see their personality.

1. Boondock Saints 1

2. The Book of Eli

3. Gone With The Wind

4. 300

5. Inglorious Basterds

6. Boondock Saints: All Saints Day

7. P.S. I love you

8. The Emperors New Groove

9. Tough Luck (much love to Norman!!)

10. Zombieland

HAHAHA Got my Flippy Flops!!

Sometimes I think that it would be nice to pick up and just move to Chicago or New York City, just so I can be around people. Right now I live in the middle of nowhere and don’t really have alot of friends, just one and we are both just too busy to hang out. On top of that she isn’t really into the same things that I am, so I can’t really talk to her about certain things. In the next year and half I will be away from my best friend and husband, which makes things alot worse because now I am completely alone. I tried to talk to my husband about how sometimes I wish I did things differently but I am sure this just upset him; I guess he thought that I regretted our marriage, which is not the case. I simply do not want to alter my goals and dreams to fit around what he is doing, call me a feminist but I don’t want my life based on a man. I love my man, I really do but sometimes I think that I am just too independent for anyone to handle. I talk to my mom about this and she seemed to think that there were problems in my marriage; can I not find anyone that understands exactly what I mean??!!